So I said to SP 'FUCK YOU...'

Hey guys, I came across this web-site and thought that I should write something. I've had SP as long as I've known, but the moment I found out what it was I decided I wasn't going to worry about, not even give it another thought, and certainly not let it affect any relationship I had. I could not be bothered letting these little bumps that don't even do anything. All they do is make my penis look ever so slightly less fetching (and let us be honest here, the most handsome penis in the world looks like the last chicken in the butchers shop. Even the 'vagina' is a more attractive organ, and that doesn't look too unlike my dogs throat. They're beautiful in their own way though). Simply put, I wasn't going to let this stupid, pointless thing disturb my life.

And it didn't bother me. Plenty of things do bother me, I'm really quite insecure I think. But I'm also stubborn, so once I found out I had SP I was like 'Fuck you SP, don't get in the way.' And it didn't get in the way. I was helped substantially by the fact that I was/am terrible with women, and was an incredibly later developer, I looked about 10 years old until I was 20. Now I look about 15. But when I was twenty (I'm 22 now) I was with a girl for 6 months, but she was even more insecure than I was and didn't like having sex with the lights on and certainly didn't want my penis anywhere near her mouth. Then five or so months ago I met a lady from the States who was at my university for 6 months. We were in a play together and hit it off (note: seriously, if you want to meet girls, go into theatre!) and they have indisputably been the best five months of my life. We are seriously, seriously, madly, positively crazy about each other. We are quite frankly, in love, and tell each other so all the time. In fact she bollocks me if I forget to tell her when I leave. She's just gone back to the States, but she's already booked flights to come back here next month, and I'm flying out there in October. I'm her first 'proper' boyfriend/lover, and we've had sex all over the place, she's kicked my ass in every position, we shower and bath together regularly, I totally forgot about my SP. She even gave me a blow-j even though she swore she would never give any guy one. After two months I actually started feeling guilty, I don't know why, I guess it was kind of like 'we have to tell each other EVERYTHING ok?' So I said to her 'So i guess you've noticed those little bumps on my dick' and she was like 'what?' and then she started feeling my dick and she was like 'what those?' and then she looked at it and was like 'oh ok' and I was incredibly nervous, and I was frantically trying to explain to her that I had it checked out and that it was nothing, but she truthfully just didn't seem to care.

Anyway, I'm not writing all this too show off. Maybe I'm really lucky. Obviously I am incredibly lucky, but I've always gone into relationships as if there's nothig wrong with me, because that's the truth. There is nothing wrong with me. I suppose I wrote this in hope it might instill people with a bit of confidence, I see some people get really down because of this thing and I absolutely see why, but the more positive stories there are the better it will be. Maybe my SP isn't too bad, I'd be willing to show pictures if you want, but I doubt I'll be on this web-site again, and hopefully a lot of you other people won't be either. Having said that, I think this web-site is excellent. Props to whose whoever idea it was. Good luck and take care!

yeah I hear ya....

I once tested a girl under the shower....I turned over my dick (and I have a lot of em at the underside) and I said...."Hmmm I noticed some hairs here close at my foreskin"....And dude believe me, I have a dark skinned dick and I flexed it right under her nose pointing at some bumps with hairs....So I asked "should I shave them?"
And she was SO uninterested haha I loved it! She said...."Uh well dunno....Just leave em be I would say...."
And I was like "yeah maybe you're right" also acting as if there was no problem....We took the shower and fucked for many months to come....

Seriously, girls just think it is normal....Very awkward as my dick is NOT nice to see....

toeman wrote:yeah I hear ya....

I once tested a girl under the shower....I turned over my dick (and I have a lot of em at the underside) and I said...."Hmmm I noticed some hairs here close at my foreskin"....And dude believe me, I have a dark skinned dick and I flexed it right under her nose pointing at some bumps with hairs....So I asked "should I shave them?"
And she was SO uninterested haha I loved it! She said...."Uh well dunno....Just leave em be I would say...."
And I was like "yeah maybe you're right" also acting as if there was no problem....We took the shower and fucked for many months to come....

Seriously, girls just think it is normal....Very awkward as my dick is NOT nice to see....

What picture in the picture section looks like what you have?

I hear ya toeman, my junk is NOT pretty, not by a fucking long shot. I get laid none the less.

I think that every last one of us here could have stories like these, I really cant tell people enough that women will only really give a fuck if you make it a big deal. I have found that it seems like the people who stress over sp the most are the people who have the least experience with women, and have no basis to form an opinion at all because they dont even try. Are there going to be situations where a woman may ask something? Maybe, but its not like its not anything most women over 20 havent seen more than a few times. Im going on 24, and I havent been asked in years, despite my sp being hugely fucking obvious on my dark ass junk. Im telling you, and I dont mean to diminish anyones condition, but if youre afraid to get laid because you have a 10 bumps on your dick, or some around the base, then youre the problem, not the sp. I get laid with hundreds around the base and up the underside of my junk, I wouldnt need to use ms paint to draw circles around one or two bumps on a picture of my dick, you could see them with the naked eye from 100 yards.

The only cure for sp is (drumroll please).............. TO STOP GIVING A FUCK. I know we would all like these things gone, but the reality of it is that sp is only a problem for us, as we make it a problem. Getting rid of sp is a lot like getting breast implants, youre only doing it for yourself because if a guy wants to screw your brains in, or really likes you, tittie size doesnt factor in for a second. Sp is the exact same way, except less prevalent.

You want to know the best way to stop giving a fuck? GO OUT AND GET FUCKED. No excuses or pussy shit, go out and get your jimmy wet. Sp will cease to be any real issue, itll just become a slight nag that you want fixed for your own sake.

late_thought wrote:I hear ya toeman, my junk is NOT pretty, not by a fucking long shot. I get laid none the less.

I think that every last one of us here could have stories like these, I really cant tell people enough that women will only really give a fuck if you make it a big deal. I have found that it seems like the people who stress over sp the most are the people who have the least experience with women, and have no basis to form an opinion at all because they dont even try. Are there going to be situations where a woman may ask something? Maybe, but its not like its not anything most women over 20 havent seen more than a few times. Im going on 24, and I havent been asked in years, despite my sp being hugely fucking obvious on my dark ass junk. Im telling you, and I dont mean to diminish anyones condition, but if youre afraid to get laid because you have a 10 bumps on your dick, or some around the base, then youre the problem, not the sp. I get laid with hundreds around the base and up the underside of my junk, I wouldnt need to use ms paint to draw circles around one or two bumps on a picture of my dick, you could see them with the naked eye from 100 yards.

The only cure for sp is (drumroll please).............. TO STOP GIVING A FUCK. I know we would all like these things gone, but the reality of it is that sp is only a problem for us, as we make it a problem. Getting rid of sp is a lot like getting breast implants, youre only doing it for yourself because if a guy wants to screw your brains in, or really likes you, tittie size doesnt factor in for a second. Sp is the exact same way, except less prevalent.

You want to know the best way to stop giving a fuck? GO OUT AND GET FUCKED. No excuses or pussy shit, go out and get your jimmy wet. Sp will cease to be any real issue, itll just become a slight nag that you want fixed for your own sake.

I don't agree. The size of tits does matter. If she uses a cup size larger than E I'm not interested.

Hahaha, well if youd tell a hot girl, or a really awesome girl, with F cup tits that theyre too big and you dont want anything to do with her, Id say thatd be a problem a lot more fucking pressing than sp.

Also, I forgot to mention that if youre truly unhappy with your junk, make it bigger! Putting size on your junk is way easier than most realize, it just takes some dedication and patience. After putting on somewhere between 1in and 1.5in in about 6 1/2 months, I cared about my sp much much less. Does size matter? Somewhat, but it was something I wanted to do for myself and I couldnt be happier. I used a traction device, but a forum like thunders place has a ton of information on how to go about it without using contraptions.

Its all about self confidence. Some guys dont need any extra self confidence, so sp doesnt get in the way in the least. For everyone else, though, anything to help with self confidence is going to improve sex life, even if it is only a lack of self confidence thats keeping you from getting laid. Theres millions of guys with some kind of sp out there getting laid, and less than a hundred on these forums. The success stories far outweigh the kind of depressing shit youll find on an internet message board.

late_thought wrote:Hahaha, well if youd tell a hot girl, or a really awesome girl, with F cup tits that theyre too big and you dont want anything to do with her, Id say thatd be a problem a lot more fucking pressing than sp.

Also, I forgot to mention that if youre truly unhappy with your junk, make it bigger! Putting size on your junk is way easier than most realize, it just takes some dedication and patience. After putting on somewhere between 1in and 1.5in in about 6 1/2 months, I cared about my sp much much less. Does size matter? Somewhat, but it was something I wanted to do for myself and I couldnt be happier. I used a traction device, but a forum like thunders place has a ton of information on how to go about it without using contraptions.

Its all about self confidence. Some guys dont need any extra self confidence, so sp doesnt get in the way in the least. For everyone else, though, anything to help with self confidence is going to improve sex life, even if it is only a lack of self confidence thats keeping you from getting laid. Theres millions of guys with some kind of sp out there getting laid, and less than a hundred on these forums. The success stories far outweigh the kind of depressing shit youll find on an internet message board.

Big tits usually mean fat girl. I prefer petite girls with small to average sized breasts.
I'm quite satisfied with my penis size. It is 15 or 16 cm and that's more than enough to please a girl.